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Starting Over: How to Make Your Space Truly Your Own




Starting over can be both exciting and overwhelming—whether you’ve just moved into a new place, are renovating your current home, or are simply craving a fresh start. One of the most empowering ways to mark a new chapter in your life is by transforming your space into one that feels uniquely you. Your home is more than just a place to live—it’s a reflection of your personality, your style, and your journey. So, how do you begin? Let’s dive into how you can make your space truly yours, no matter where you're starting from.


1. Embrace a Blank Slate

Starting over means you have the freedom to create something entirely new. If you’re in a new home, lucky you—this is your chance to design from scratch! If you’re working with an existing space, don't worry; the possibilities are still endless. The key is to see your space as a blank canvas, where you can experiment with new ideas, textures, and colors.

Start by clearing out anything that doesn’t serve you, whether it’s clutter, old furniture, or items that just don’t align with your current vibe. Getting rid of what no longer works frees up mental space and lets you focus on what truly resonates with you. This might be as simple as rearranging the furniture or as bold as repainting the walls—either way, you're creating room for new energy.


2. Find Your Style

Maybe you’re not sure exactly what your style is yet. That’s okay! Finding your design style is part of the fun. Take time to explore different aesthetics—Pinterest, Instagram, design blogs, or even magazines can offer tons of inspiration. Is your style minimal and modern, or do you love the warmth of a cozy, eclectic vibe? Are you drawn to calming neutrals, or do bold colors excite you?

Once you’ve gathered some inspiration, think about how you want your space to feel. Do you want it to be calm and serene or vibrant and energetic? This feeling should guide your design choices, from furniture to textiles to art and accessories. Don’t rush the process—give yourself permission to experiment and try different things. Over time, you’ll start to see a clear picture of what feels like you.


3. Mix the Old and the New

Starting over doesn’t mean you need to completely toss everything you’ve accumulated over the years. The key is to blend what you already have with new pieces that fit your evolving style. That vintage chair you love? It can be reupholstered in a fabric that fits your new color scheme. Your grandmother’s antique lamp? It can still have a place in your updated space, adding character and a personal touch.

By mixing the old with the new, you’ll create a space that feels authentic to your journey—a place that honors where you’ve been and embraces where you’re going.


4. Get Personal

The best way to make your space feel like home is by infusing it with personal touches. Incorporate items that tell your story, from artwork that reflects your passions to travel souvenirs that spark memories of your adventures. Family photos, books you love, and even quirky collectibles can bring your personality into your home.

Don’t be afraid to showcase your individuality. Whether it’s through unique decor, a bold color choice, or a custom piece of furniture, make sure your home reflects who you are. The beauty of starting over is that you have the freedom to express yourself however you choose.


5. Focus on Functionality

A space that looks beautiful is great, but a space that works for you is even better. When designing your new space, consider how you use the space daily. Do you need more storage? A cozy reading nook? A designated area for your hobbies? Think about how each room serves your needs and make adjustments to improve its functionality.

Sometimes, starting over isn’t just about aesthetics—it’s about making sure your space supports your lifestyle. The goal is to create a space where you feel comfortable, inspired, and energized.


6. Add the Finishing Touches

Once you’ve set the foundation for your new space, it’s time to focus on the details. Think about lighting, textiles, plants, and accessories. A well-chosen rug can pull a room together, while throw pillows, cozy blankets, or a statement light fixture can add personality and warmth.

Plants are a fantastic way to breathe life into any space. Not only do they add a fresh, natural element, but they can also improve air quality and create a calming atmosphere. Whether it’s a lush fern, a snake plant, or a few succulents, greenery instantly elevates a room.


7. Trust the Process

Remember, creating a space that feels like you is a journey. It won’t happen overnight, and that’s totally okay. Trust that with each step, you’re building a home that reflects your personality, your taste, and your story. Don’t feel pressured to have everything figured out right away—designing your home is a process that should be as enjoyable as the final result.


Starting over is a chance to embrace change, discover new things about yourself, and build a space that truly feels like home. Whether you're renovating, moving to a new place, or just ready for a change, this is your opportunity to design a space that reflects what makes you, you. So, take a deep breath, dive into the process, and most importantly—have fun creating a space you love.

Are you ready to start your design journey? Let’s make your space truly yours!

We live by the idea, "Do what you love, and you’ll never work a day in your life." This is what we truly love doing, and it shines through in our dedication to our clients—many of whom become lifelong friends. Together, we’re here to help you create the spaces of your dreams.

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